- Having money, riches and wealth
- Having many properties and assets
- Being popular and in the news at
all times
- Having fleet of cars
- Having many children
- Marrying many wives
- Having many admirers
- Being a public figure
- Being the envy of everyone around etc
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Monday, 5 March 2018
Wrong Concepts Of Success
Friday, 2 March 2018
12 Star-Performer Hacks For Nigerian Professionals
The vicissitudes of work throw different things at us. Some get to the workplace and find their rhythm or get direction for their lives, others enter and begin to struggle and only just getting by. But, one thing is certain, the world of work only rewards the star performers and they are the ones who find the most fulfilment from the self-application process of work. Nigerian professionals, renowned for their determination to succeed, are among the most productive in the world. But there are more they can add to their game.
Below some 12 steps that will elevate you to the status of a star performer.
1. Know yourself
Know yourself. Know your strengths, limits, talents, gifts, deficiencies. Know where you will thrive and flourish; know where you will struggle and not be able to cope. All of us are not supposed to work anywhere; so, once you understand yourself, it makes career choices and decisions easier. For instance, if you work in a setup where your job descriptions do not match your strengths, you will struggle and will not find joy in your work. The kind of satisfaction that comes from doing what you are naturally cut out for will elude you.
Even though research has revealed that most Nigerian workforce work mainly for the pay and not out of interest, you still owe yourself the duty of making a choice as to where you want to work, such that going to work will not be something you dread every day.
2. Confirm expectations and requirements
If you desire to turn in a five-star performance in any role, you must know what specific tasks are required of you at work. You should know what you are supposed to do on a regular, daily, weekly, monthly, or yearly basis to fulfil your role. This will help to have a complete picture of what you ought to do with minimal omission.
3. Ascertain the scope and coverage of your responsibilities
How long do you need to do what you are doing? How far do you need to go? What scope do you need to cover in your professional responsibilities? Having a grasp of this will help you not to dissipate energy in the wrong direction or do much where you are supposed to do little.
What am I expected to do? For how long am I expected to do them? How many of those am I required to turn in daily? These are questions star performers ask before they hit the ground running.
4. Identify result and productivity metrics
Star performers are always conscious of their productivity quotient. If you wish to be numbered among them, then you need to adopt a result-driven mindset like they have. You need to be clear as to what constitutes productivity for you. You are permitted to do as many things as you want, but it is not all the things you do that constitute productivity. You should know how your results will be appraised so as to align yourself to do what you are supposed to do as against what catches your fancy.
5. Set goals and objectives
Having known what you are expected to do, what scope you are required to cover, and the metrics of your appraisal; you should then set goals for yourself: These are the things I’m going to accomplish, based on what I know.
You need to set personal goals; star performers are goal-driven. They focus on the end result but do not lose sight of the process. They align with the process that will take them to their result, not activities that will take them away from it. Even if you are not given a goal by your employers or line manager, you need to have your own performance goals.
6. Count the cost
What will it take to accomplish the goals you have set for yourself or the ones set for you by your managers? What will it take to cover the scope? What will it take to meet the expectations or requirements delivered to you? What are the things you need to do to achieve all these? Asking such pertinent questions will help you determine what needs to give in order for you to achieve your objectives.
7. Set your priorities
What are your priorities? You have been told what you are supposed to do, you know how far you are supposed to go, you know what scope you are supposed to cover, and you know what will be used to assess your performance. Armed with all this knowledge, you also need to know which task to do first of all you are supposed to do; which one should come second, which one should come third, which one should be the last.
Setting priorities before you start will help to know the order you are supposed to eat your frogs.
8. Manage your time
Star performers are excellent time managers. They are strict in the way they spend time as well as to what extent they allow others who are not germane to their result to encroach on their time and space. Because they know the ephemeral nature of time, they endeavour to make every moment count. They reduce loafing to the barest minimum and input substance that will count later on in their time.
A very good tool that has helped star performers improve their productivity is the award-winning TAMS, a homegrown time-management focused human resource management application that measures punctuality at duty posts as well as overall contributions to organisational success. Trusted by over a thousand organizations in Nigeria and West Africa, TAMS also celebrates star performers with gifts and vacation packages.
9. Focus
After you set your priorities and you are able to optimise time, you have to learn to focus on what you ought to do. As simple as that sounds, it is one of the most difficult things to do. It is not easy to maintain a laser focus on a task for a prolonged spell and not be distracted.
There are noises all around us, even in your own mind, there psychological noises contending for your attention. But you must be able to sieve through them and centre on what needs to be done at any point in time. That is one of the tricks of star performers.
10. Manage people and your environment
To be productive you also need to manage the people around you. You have to learn to say, ‘No’ or promise a rain check on extraneous requests.
You need to manage your environment too, there are some environments that aid productivity, and there are those that inhibit it. You have to position yourself in an environment that allows you to be productive. For instance, the way you are seated or how you organise your table and workspace can either facilitate or slow down your work pace.
11. Review your work
Top performers have reviews ingrained in their system. After completing a task, they look at it again and ask themselves questions: Is this the best I can come up with or can I do better? They also review their day asking such questions as; how has my day been? What did I get right, what did I do wrong?
You have to review your own performance before being assessed by your superiors. You should also review your day, week, month, quarter and year. This helps you to know what you have accomplished so that you can report it and get the confidence boost to do more. It also helps you to know what is outstanding so you can pursue them.
12. Self-discipline
All the highlighted pointers that make a star performer are indicators of discipline. After you have taken note of all the points, if you are not disciplined enough to put them into practice, they will all filter away. Motivation gets you started, but self-discipline keeps you going even when you don’t feel like it.
How many excuse-makers do you know that turned out to be successful? Nobody claps for what you plan or intend to do. You only get applauded for what you have done, and it takes discipline to get difficult things done because you have to take tough decisions and be rigorous in your thinking. It is not even easy to think through a process, it takes discipline. And that is one of the hallmarks of star performers.
Thursday, 1 March 2018
Principles for Overcoming Failure
1.
Do not let fear control you
2.
Check your attitudes
3.
Do not make excuses
4.
Never let failure get inside you
5.
Change yourself
6.
Learn from your mistakes
7.
Let go of the past
8.
Never give up
Wednesday, 28 February 2018
Be Free, Manifest and Succeed!
I got this insight after watching a
movie entitled “Bubble Boy.”
Humans, when caged by self, dogma or
fellow humans cannot be free, neither can they manifest their full potential
nor succeed in their endeavours. The very thought of freedom, manifestation,
and success suggests an image of outward flow of activities rather than an
inward blossom.
However, freedom, manifestation and
success do not happen without some degrees of internal and external struggles.
These restrictions usually come in form of limitations imposed by the self,
others or the environment; and it is to the extent that you overcome them that
you will be free, become and succeed.
Therefore, to be free, to manifest
or to succeed, here are three keys you may find very helpful:
1. Go out: you cannot reach your full potential unless you go out of
your comfort zone. Have you seen a tortoise moving before? No matter how big or
small it is, it cannot move anywhere until it juts its head out of the shell.
Humans are no different; there is no progress unless you go out of your shell.
You cannot succeed unless you discard the limiting beliefs and self-doubts that
have held you down for whatever length of time. To grow, you need to proceed from
one level of reasoning or operation to the next. To succeed, you have to go out
of the miry of nonchalance and average performance.
2. Reach out: as you go out of your comfort zone or bland level to pursue
your dreams and ideals, you also need to reach out to people and resources that
will help you to achieve your objectives along the way. Fortune most often does
not favour the taciturn. You need to identify the persons or association that
can enhance you as a person as well as enable you to accomplish your aim, and
then reach out to them. This is not limited to humans alone; as you are “going
out” you will also encounter books, events and other resources that will be
helpful to you. Reach out to them, subscribe to them, engage them and
assimilate them.
3. Launch out: to the extent that you have gone out and reached out, you
also need to launch out with the idea and initiative you have been nursing, or
those that occur to you as you become. A popular maxim holds that “people will
not celebrate you for your intentions, but your actions.” To succeed, you need
to have a sizable action quotient per day. And the key to doing that is making
every hour count. Input substance into your hours and you will have a
productive day. Never let an hour pass by without a substantial investment of
rigorous thinking or effort with short, medium or long-term yield in it. Even
the chunk of time you take to rest or spend with your family constitutes a
judicious investment of time that will produce positives. So, don’t think it’s
all about working alone.
So, dare the odds and discouragements to launch out and
start that business, NGO, product/service line, and whatever it is that you
have tucked in the recess of your mind for so long. Don’t fall victim of the
paralysis that develops from over-analysis. You will never know all there is to
know, have all you need to start, nor have a panoramic view of all there is to
see about the idea anyway. So start where you are.
I conclude with a saying I heard
some years ago, “instead of waiting for a perfect time, make the present time
perfect.”
Tuesday, 27 February 2018
The Entrepreneurial Questions
1. Do I have the resources, ability,
interest and contacts to do this business?
2.
Do I have the necessary commitment needed to succeed in a business undertaking?
3.
Am I prepared to work extremely hard, to devote long hours of labour to my
business?
4. Do I have the mental stamina and
concentration to meet the demands my project will impose on me?
5.
Do I accept new ideas easily? Do I treat other people with respect? Am I able
to make decisions right away?
6.
How do I deal with problem solving: Am I prepared to spend time analyzing a
problem and find a solution? Or am I the type who just closes his eyes and hope
for the best?
7.
Am I ready to commit to the long term, knowing that a company’s success is
never an overnight miracle?
8.
What back-up resources do I have? Will my family members or friends invest in
my company or tide me over during a rough patch?
9.
Am I good at concentrating on details?
10.
Am I ready to sit down and write a careful analysis of my business prospects?
11.
Am I by nature an optimist? Knowing that mistakes and setbacks are bound to
occur, am I able to learn from my mistakes without getting derailed or
discouraged?
Monday, 26 February 2018
The Woman, The Economy & The Family
The Woman
The woman has often been described as “a man with a womb.” She is the specie of mankind whom by virtue of her peculiar physiological features (e.g. the womb) keeps the human race going.
The Role of the Woman in the Economy
The woman is the unseen influence behind every successful man in the society. Therefore, as the mother, the wife, the sister, the daughter, or a relative of the men at the corridors of power, the woman is better positioned to influence certain economic policies that will turn out in the best interest of all.
The woman, by virtue of her natural intuitiveness, is more equipped to pursue certain courses that will enhance the economy than the man who is usually more logical in reasoning and action.
The woman performs the dual role of a driver as well as a support system in the economy.
As a driver – the woman facilitates the economic chain through her enterprise in business and in the workplace. The woman also functions as a support system towards the growth and development of the economy.
The Role of the Woman in the Family
The woman is the pulse of the family. She is the one that dictates the tone and direction of the home. As the manager of the home, the woman wields considerable influence in the ultimate productivity and performance of members of her household in the larger society.
The woman is also the moulder of the character and attitude of members of her household and these inform their level of adaptation into and contributions to the society for good or otherwise.
The woman has often been described as “a man with a womb.” She is the specie of mankind whom by virtue of her peculiar physiological features (e.g. the womb) keeps the human race going.
The Role of the Woman in the Economy
The woman is the unseen influence behind every successful man in the society. Therefore, as the mother, the wife, the sister, the daughter, or a relative of the men at the corridors of power, the woman is better positioned to influence certain economic policies that will turn out in the best interest of all.
The woman, by virtue of her natural intuitiveness, is more equipped to pursue certain courses that will enhance the economy than the man who is usually more logical in reasoning and action.
The woman performs the dual role of a driver as well as a support system in the economy.
As a driver – the woman facilitates the economic chain through her enterprise in business and in the workplace. The woman also functions as a support system towards the growth and development of the economy.
The Role of the Woman in the Family
The woman is the pulse of the family. She is the one that dictates the tone and direction of the home. As the manager of the home, the woman wields considerable influence in the ultimate productivity and performance of members of her household in the larger society.
The woman is also the moulder of the character and attitude of members of her household and these inform their level of adaptation into and contributions to the society for good or otherwise.
Friday, 23 February 2018
Facts about Your Life Purpose
- It
is the key to your greatness
- It
is not determined by your past or present location
- It
has nothing to do with your family background or standing in the society
- It
may have nothing to do with your present career or the job you are doing
now
- It
helps you to set your priorities in life and identify what is really
important and what isn’t
- It
helps you to apportion and make use of time more productively
- God
will require an account of stewardship from you on what you do with it
- It
takes an accountability system to continually live and fulfil it maximally
- It
is what you will do with joy and look forward to doing everyday
- It
will bring you great contentment in life and give you a sense of
fulfilment
- It
helps you to identify your destiny partners: e.g. who to marry, who to be
friendly with, who to go into business with, who to hire as workers, who
to submit to etc
- In
the field of your purpose, you are a king and a celebrity
- It
is in the Word of God
- It
takes God and His resources to fulfil it
- You
are not really successful if you are not fulfilling or living it
- It
guides you to make the right choices and decisions in life
- It
is not something you learn in school, seminars, workshops, or conferences
- It
has been in/with you all along, merely awaiting discovery
- You
might have been fulfilling it without knowing
- You
don’t have to leave your present job or career to start fulfilling it
- You
can make a career out of it
- It
can be commercialised to fetch you money and make you very rich
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