Tuesday, 3 July 2018

Be Free, Manifest and Succeed!


I got this insight after watching a movie entitled “Bubble Boy.”

Humans, when caged by self, dogma or fellow humans cannot be free, neither can they manifest their full potential nor succeed in their endeavours. The very thought of freedom, manifestation, and success suggests an image of outward flow of activities rather than an inward blossom.

However, freedom, manifestation and success do not happen without some degrees of internal and external struggles. These restrictions usually come in form of limitations imposed by the self, others or the environment; and it is to the extent that you overcome them that you will be free, become and succeed.

Therefore, to be free, to manifest or to succeed, here are three keys you may find very helpful:

1.    Go out: you cannot reach your full potential unless you go out of your comfort zone. Have you seen a tortoise moving before? No matter how big or small it is, it cannot move anywhere until it juts its head out of the shell. Humans are no different; there is no progress unless you go out of your shell. You cannot succeed unless you discard the limiting beliefs and self-doubts that have held you down for whatever length of time. To grow, you need to proceed from one level of reasoning or operation to the next. To succeed, you have to go out of the miry of nonchalance and average performance.

2.    Reach out: as you go out of your comfort zone or bland level to pursue your dreams and ideals, you also need to reach out to people and resources that will help you to achieve your objectives along the way. Fortune most often does not favour the taciturn. You need to identify the persons or association that can enhance you as a person as well as enable you to accomplish your aim, and then reach out to them. This is not limited to humans alone; as you are “going out” you will also encounter books, events and other resources that will be helpful to you. Reach out to them, subscribe to them, engage them and assimilate them.

3.    Launch out: to the extent that you have gone out and reached out, you also need to launch out with the idea and initiative you have been nursing, or those that occur to you as you become. A popular maxim holds that “people will not celebrate you for your intentions, but your actions.” To succeed, you need to have a sizable action quotient per day. And the key to doing that is making every hour count. Input substance into your hours and you will have a productive day. Never let an hour pass by without a substantial investment of rigorous thinking or effort with short, medium or long-term yield in it. Even the chunk of time you take to rest or spend with your family constitutes a judicious investment of time that will produce positives. So, don’t think it’s all about working alone.

So, dare the odds and discouragements to launch out and start that business, NGO, product/service line, and whatever it is that you have tucked in the recess of your mind for so long. Don’t fall victim of the paralysis that develops from over-analysis. You will never know all there is to know, have all you need to start, nor have a panoramic view of all there is to see about the idea anyway. So start where you are.

I conclude with a saying I heard some years ago, “instead of waiting for a perfect time, make the present time perfect.”


Monday, 2 July 2018

Some 22 Facts about Your Life Purpose


  1. It is the key to your greatness
  2. It is not determined by your past or present location
  3. It has nothing to do with your family background or standing in the society
  4. It may have nothing to do with your present career or the job you are doing now
  5. It helps you to set your priorities in life and identify what is really important and what isn’t
  6. It helps you to apportion and make use of time more productively
  7. God will require an account of stewardship from you on what you do with it
  8. It takes an accountability system to continually live and fulfil it maximally
  9. It is what you will do with joy and look forward to doing everyday
  10. It will bring you great contentment in life and give you a sense of fulfilment
  11. It helps you to identify your destiny partners: e.g. who to marry, who to be friendly with, who to go into business with, who to hire as workers, who to submit to etc
  12. In the field of your purpose, you are a king and a celebrity
  13. It is in the Word of God
  14. It takes God and His resources to fulfil it
  15. You are not really successful if you are not fulfilling or living it
  16. It guides you to make the right choices and decisions in life
  17. It is not something you learn in school, seminars, workshops, or conferences
  18. It has been in/with you all along, merely awaiting discovery
  19. You might have been fulfilling it without knowing
  20. You don’t have to leave your present job or career to start fulfilling it
  21. You can make a career out of it
  22. It can be commercialised to fetch you money and make you very rich


Friday, 29 June 2018

Some Quotes On Potentials


The will to win, the desire to succeed, the urge to reach your full potential... these are the keys that will unlock the door to personal excellence. - Eddie Robinson
The potential for greatness lives within each of us. The key to achieving greatness is found when we discover and then develop our dream. - John Maxwell
Adventure isn't hanging on a rope off the side of a mountain. Adventure is an attitude that we must apply to the day to day obstacles of life - facing new challenges, seizing new opportunities, testing our resources against the unknown and in the process, discovering our own unique potential. - John Amatt
No one fulfils his purpose, develops his potential, or consistently help others without goals. Your goals determine your priorities – and your priorities determine whether you’ll reach your goals. - John Maxwell
Nothing is more effective when it comes to reaching potential than commitment to personal growth. - John Maxwell
Continuous effort – not strength or intelligence – is the key to unlocking our potential. Sir Winston Churchill (1874-1965) British prime minister during WWII
I’d rather reach 90 percent of my potential with plenty of mistakes than reach only 10 percent with a perfect score. - John Maxwell
To keep moving to a higher level and reach your potential, you… have to be willing to… trade security for significance. - John Maxwell
We spend January 1 walking through our lives, room by room, drawing up a list of work to be done, cracks to be patched. Maybe this year, to balance the list, we ought to walk through the rooms of our lives... not looking for flaws, but for potential. - Ellen Goodman



Thursday, 28 June 2018

How To Maximize Your Potential

Means Of Expressing One’s Potentials
Potentials are expressed through the following:
  • Actions
  • Interactions
  • Works
  • Service
Avenues For Expressing One’s Potentials
  • The family
  • The workplace
  • Business ventures and entrepreneurship
  • The society
The church or other voluntary societies

Wednesday, 27 June 2018

How Can You Discover Your Potential?


¡ By self-examination and reflection
¡ By self-expression in various activities
¡ By being adventurous, and learning from trials and errors
¡ At formal trainings such as workshops, seminars, conferences etc
¡ Through informal interactions with families, friends, colleagues etc
¡ Through divine revelation
¡ By chance and unpremeditated happenings
¡ During a coaching session

Tuesday, 26 June 2018

What Is Potential?


Dictionary Definitions:
Capacity to develop: the capacity or ability for future development or achievement. – Microsoft® Encarta® Dictionary
Natural abilities or qualities that may possibly develop and make someone or something very successful or useful. – Longman Dictionary
The inherent capacity for coming into being. – WordWeb Dictionary
A Personal Definition:
Potentials are the gifts, the talents, the endowments, the riches, the resources as well as the blessings inherent in a human that are yet to be expressed in his/her actions, interactions and works. Once these find expression, they cease to be called potential and then become skills and abilities.

Monday, 25 June 2018

10 Simple Ways To Know You Are In The Job You Are Naturally Cut Out For (Part 2)


Ok, now to the titbits: how do you identify the job you are naturally cut out for or ascertain the one you are doing now is it?

1.    You will enjoy doing what you do, and it won’t be a drag or drudgery to you.

2.    Time will not be “of essence”, and you will not be watching it, since you can start whenever you like and end whenever you like. I agree that this one may be a hard pill for the apostles of structure to swallow. But, check it out in the lives of those who are all fired up about their job.

3.    You flow seamlessly into the work, with minimal or no friction anytime, any day, and in most places. You also hands off your work with a teeny feeling of reluctance, but a soothing sense of accomplishing something.

4.    You are doing something by which people generally hail you or associate you whenever they see you or thoughts of you pop up on their mind.

5.    Money is not a major consideration for doing what you are doing. Although it is a necessity of life and a viable motivation factor, your primary drive is derived from your sheer involvement in and satisfaction with what you are doing.

6.    You want to learn all you can about the vocation, or certain aspects of it where you feel you can still be better.

7.    You want to make everyone who comes into contact with you an artisan in the vocation. You want to teach them, help them, guide them, and/or instruct them on how to do it. And you will be willing to do all these, even at no fee.

8.    You want to passionately defend, justify, or clarify certain notions about the vocation, or its operational aspects, that you feel is wrongly bandied or misconstrued by people.

9.    You are agitated when you see people who are similarly engaged doing the same work the way it ought not be done, either by underperforming, under-delivering, or not conforming to certain norms and standards pertaining to it.

10. You eagerly look forward to getting up from bed every day you have to work to get on the task or an assignment you have in hand. And you won’t mind sleeping late engaged in what you are doing. In the event you are busy doing something else, you are not so excited and you can’t wait to be done with it to get back to your love vocation.

Like I mentioned, this list is neither authoritative nor exhaustive. You may be presently engaged in the job you are naturally cut out for and not find yourself in any of the above bits. We will like to learn your own slant to this.

Cheers!