Thursday 5 April 2018

How You Can Live/Maximise Your Potential


¡ By setting life and project goals
¡ By drawing up a roadmap to achieve the set goals
¡ By always taking actions – instead of idling away or procrastinating
¡ By holding yourself accountable for living out your potential
¡ By adopting a steward’s posture toward your potential, knowing full well that you will have to give account to God, the Depositor for whatever potential has been besotted to you (remember the parable of the talents in the Bible)
¡ By making the most of time and opportunities, and wasting none
¡ By giving of yourself whenever occasion demands
¡ By getting a mentor or an accountability partner who will guide or hold you accountable to your ideals

Wednesday 4 April 2018

How You Can Discover Your Potential



By self-examination and reflection
¡ By self-expression in various activities
¡ By being adventurous, and learning from trials and errors
¡ At formal trainings such as workshops, seminars, conferences etc
¡ Through informal interactions with families, friends, colleagues etc
¡ Through divine revelation
¡ By chance and unpremeditated happenings
¡ During a coaching session

Tuesday 3 April 2018

Principles for Overcoming Failure


1. Do not let fear control you
2. Check your attitudes
3. Do not make excuses
4. Never let failure get inside you
5. Change yourself
6. Learn from your mistakes
7. Let go of the past
8. Never give up

Monday 2 April 2018

10 Reasons Why People Fail



1. Holding on to the past
 2. Fear
3. Negative Attitudes
4. Poor People Skills
5. Lack of Focus
6. Sin and Compromise
7. Excuses (Focusing on Who instead of Why)
8. Non-Adaptability to Change
9. Lack of Plan
10. Giving Up Too Soon

Friday 30 March 2018

Some 22 Facts about Your Life Purpose


  1. It is the key to your greatness
  2. It is not determined by your past or present location
  3. It has nothing to do with your family background or standing in the society
  4. It may have nothing to do with your present career or the job you are doing now
  5. It helps you to set your priorities in life and identify what is really important and what isn’t
  6. It helps you to apportion and make use of time more productively
  7. God will require an account of stewardship from you on what you do with it
  8. It takes an accountability system to continually live and fulfil it maximally
  9. It is what you will do with joy and look forward to doing everyday
  10. It will bring you great contentment in life and give you a sense of fulfilment
  11. It helps you to identify your destiny partners: e.g. who to marry, who to be friendly with, who to go into business with, who to hire as workers, who to submit to etc
  12. In the field of your purpose, you are a king and a celebrity
  13. It is in the Word of God
  14. It takes God and His resources to fulfil it
  15. You are not really successful if you are not fulfilling or living it
  16. It guides you to make the right choices and decisions in life
  17. It is not something you learn in school, seminars, workshops, or conferences
  18. It has been in/with you all along, merely awaiting discovery
  19. You might have been fulfilling it without knowing
  20. You don’t have to leave your present job or career to start fulfilling it
  21. You can make a career out of it
  22. It can be commercialised to fetch you money and make you very rich

Thursday 29 March 2018

Writing for Professional Development


For those whose vocation is writing-intensive, such as journalists, academics, secretaries, etc the command of a superb language mechanics is a great determinant of their success at the workplace as well as the prestige ascribed to them by their publics. People like Chinua Achebe, Wole Soyinka, J.P. Clark, Ayo Banjo, Reuben Abati, Dare Babarinsa, are few among the contemporary people who have attained international prominence through their writing skills.

Students in academic institutions, especially those in the humanities, also need a good command of language to enhance their grades. Therefore, it behoves anyone whose line has anything to do with writing to hone his writing skill by reading and writing regularly.

CONCLUSION


So far we have considered the various ways we can use the four communication skills to achieve personal development, which is the key to success, excellence and greatness. In the words of Riley, as documented by Tracy (2004):

By engaging in continuous self-improvement, you can put yourself behind the wheel of your own life. By dedicating yourself to enhancing your earning ability, you will automatically be engaging in the continuous process of personal development. By learning more, you prepare yourself to earn more. You position yourself for tomorrow by developing the knowledge and skills that you need to be a valuable and productive part of …(the) economy, no matter which direction it goes.

This is a final word to underscore the role of personal development in attaining your dreams in life. There is no shortcut to earning more, becoming more and achieving greatness except to follow the route of disciplined and sustained investment in the self. Any attempt to go it otherwise will only be like trying to beat the devil to his own game. And this reminds me of the story of the man who did just that.

Some time ago, the devil compiled a list of one thousand people who were due for death because of their nefarious activities on earth. The number one person on that list happened to be a notorious Nigerian fraudster (popularly known as 419), whose fraudulent records had no rival under heaven. After getting God’s approval to execute the sinners, the devil went to the house of his first victim and announced his mission there without much ado.
To his utmost surprise, this fraudster did not betray any sign of fear nor plead for mercy. Instead, he welcomed the devil most cheerfully and invited him to sit down so that he could entertain him, as the august visitor that he was, before he carries out his mission. Then the man served the devil several bottles of beer and large portions of barbecues (suya), which he gulped down so ravenously till he fell into a long sleep.
While he was fast asleep, this fraudster quickly erased his name from the number one position on the devil’s list and wrote it as the last name. Then he anxiously waited for his visitor to wake up and discover his mistake.
After several hours, the devil finally woke up and groggily looked around him in confusion.  Then his eyes centred on the man standing beside him, and he smiled with pleasure. He said:
“My friend, you surprised me a lot. I never knew human beings are capable of the hospitality and generosity you have shown me today”. He placed his hand on the man’s shoulder and gave him a friendly pat.
“Guess what? I’m going to do you a big favour in return. I’ll give you enough time to prepare yourself and put your house in order before I come for you.  So I wont kill you now, instead I will start my killing from the last name on my list” (Oladele, unpublished).

Wednesday 28 March 2018

Writing for Social Integration


An effective writing skill can be a great source of prestige in the society for anyone who possesses it. As stated earlier, few people possess the writing skill to a commendable extent.  And those who do usually enjoy considerable credibility in the society because most people believe the written word (and a writer) more than they do the spoken words (and a public speaker).

Another way to use written communication to enhance your social integration is by cultivating the habit of writing letters or short notes to compliment or encourage people; your family members, friends, colleagues, or even people who do not know you but whom you admire and desire to be friendly with. In the words of Benson (undated:183), ‘we live by encouragement, and die without it –  slowly, sadly and angrily’. Therefore, the man who looks beyond himself to sincerely appreciate others in long or short writings will not just be adding a memorable value to them, but will also earn himself an impressive collection of allies. And the more people you have around you, the easier you are able to perform tasks and achieve your aims in life.