Luke 16: 10-12 He who is faithful in what is least is
faithful also in much; and he who is unjust in what is least in unjust also in
much. Therefore if you have not been faithful in the unrighteous mammon, who
will commit to your trust the true riches? And if you have not been faithful in
what is another man’s, who will give you what is your own? Budgeting answers
the question of where will you get the money to operate your business and how
you are going to manage that money. Budgeting is the defender on a soccer team.
The defender is careful not to be caught out of position lest the opposition
gain the advantage. In budgeting, business people must be careful that they
have enough financial resources to enable the business to function and to grow.
Budgeting involves planning and monitoring financial resources and making the
necessary changes so that the team is in position to win the game.
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Monday, 20 August 2018
Friday, 17 August 2018
’” THE WORD ON BUSINESS AND CAREER PURPOSE
Proverbs 24:3-4: Through wisdom (insight about self &
the market) a house (business) is built; and by understanding (exposures &
experience) it is established: By knowledge (information & learning) the
rooms (the different arms of the business) are filled with all precious and
pleasant riches. Compared this with how the first ever and oldest business
institution was created: Proverbs 3:19-20 The LORD by wisdom founded the earth;
by understanding He established the heavens; by His knowledge the depths were
broken up, and clouds drop down the dew. Purpose answers the question “what
business am I in and why am I in that business?” Purpose is like the centre
forward of a football team. He sets the direction of the business. Possession
of the ball begins with him. Business people must have a well-defined purpose
for their business that includes not only the type of business and market but
also the area of ministry that can be done through that business. Planning
Proverbs 24:27: Prepare your outside work, make it fit for yourself in the
field; and afterward build your house. Planning answers the question of ‘where
do you want to go and how are you going to get there?’ Planning is like the
mid-fielder on a soccer team. Planning involves being on the offensive and
developing goals so that the business can win the game. It also involves being
on the defensive and anticipating problems and solving them before they happen.
Without this position on the team, the game will be lost because there is no
game plan. As the saying goes, business people who fail to plan, plan to fail.
Timing Ecclesiastes 3:1 To everything there is a season, a time for every
purpose under heaven. Ecclesiastes 8: 5-6 (NIV) Whoever obeys his command will
come to no harm, and the wise in heart will know the proper time and procedure.
For there is a proper time and procedure for every matter, though a man’s
misery weighs heavily upon him” Managing Matthew 25:20-21 So he who had
received five talents came and brought five other talents, saying, ‘Lord, you
delivered to me five talents; look, I have gained five more talents besides
them.’ His lord said to him, ‘well done, good and faithful servant; you have
been faithful over a few things, I will make you ruler over many things. Enter
into the joy of your lord. Managing answers the question of how you are going
to operate your business and who is going to have control? Managing is like the
coach of a soccer team. The coach has to make sure all the details are taken
care of for the team to get to the game and be ready to play it. He oversees
the play and makes sure the players are healthy and doing what they are all
supposed to be doing. The coach has to be familiar with all the positions on
the team and recommend what should be done to improve performance.
Thursday, 16 August 2018
REASONS FOR FAILURE
10
REASONS WHY PEOPLE FAIL
1.
Holding on to the past
2.
Fear
3. Negative Attitudes
4. Poor People Skills
5.
Lack of Focus
6. Sin
and Compromise
7.
Excuses (Focusing on Who instead of Why)
8.
Non-Adaptability to Change
9.
Lack of Plan
10.
Giving Up Too Soon
PRINCIPLES
FOR OVERCOMING FAILURE
1. Do
not let fear control you
2.
Check your attitudes
3. Do
not make excuses
4.
Never let failure get inside you
5.
Change yourself
6.
Learn from your mistakes
7. Let
go of the past 8. Never give up
Wednesday, 15 August 2018
Writing for Professional Development
For those whose vocation is
writing-intensive, such as journalists, academics, secretaries, etc the command
of a superb language mechanics is a great determinant of their success at the
workplace as well as the prestige ascribed to them by their publics. People
like Chinua Achebe, Wole Soyinka, J.P. Clark, Ayo Banjo, Reuben Abati, Dare
Babarinsa, are few among the contemporary people who have attained
international prominence through their writing skills.
Students in academic institutions,
especially those in the humanities, also need a good command of language to enhance
their grades. Therefore, it behoves anyone whose line has anything to do with
writing to hone his writing skill by reading and writing regularly.
CONCLUSION
So far we have considered the various
ways we can use the four communication skills to achieve personal development,
which is the key to success, excellence and greatness. In the words of Riley,
as documented by Tracy (2004):
By engaging in
continuous self-improvement, you can put yourself behind the wheel of your own
life. By dedicating yourself to enhancing your earning ability, you will
automatically be engaging in the continuous process of personal development. By
learning more, you prepare yourself to earn more. You position yourself for
tomorrow by developing the knowledge and skills that you need to be a valuable
and productive part of …(the) economy, no matter which direction it goes.
This is a final
word to underscore the role of personal development in attaining your dreams in
life. There is no shortcut to earning more, becoming more and achieving
greatness except to follow the route of disciplined and sustained investment in
the self. Any attempt to go it otherwise will only be like trying to beat the
devil to his own game. And this reminds me of the story of the man who did just
that.
Some time ago,
the devil compiled a list of one thousand people who were due for death because
of their nefarious activities on earth. The number one person on that list
happened to be a notorious Nigerian fraudster (popularly known as 419), whose
fraudulent records had no rival under heaven. After getting God’s approval to
execute the sinners, the devil went to the house of his first victim and
announced his mission there without much ado.
To his utmost
surprise, this fraudster did not betray any sign of fear nor plead for mercy.
Instead, he welcomed the devil most cheerfully and invited him to sit down so
that he could entertain him, as the august visitor that he was, before he
carries out his mission. Then the man served the devil several bottles of beer
and large portions of barbecues (suya), which he gulped down so ravenously till
he fell into a long sleep.
While he was
fast asleep, this fraudster quickly erased his name from the number one
position on the devil’s list and wrote it as the last name. Then he anxiously
waited for his visitor to wake up and discover his mistake.
After several
hours, the devil finally woke up and groggily looked around him in
confusion. Then his eyes centred on the
man standing beside him, and he smiled with pleasure. He said:
“My friend, you
surprised me a lot. I never knew human beings are capable of the hospitality
and generosity you have shown me today”. He placed his hand on the man’s
shoulder and gave him a friendly pat.
“Guess what? I’m
going to do you a big favour in return. I’ll give you enough time to prepare
yourself and put your house in order before I come for you. So I wont kill you now, instead I will start
my killing from the last name on my list” (Oladele, unpublished).
Tuesday, 14 August 2018
Writing for Social Integration
An effective writing skill can be a
great source of prestige in the society for anyone who possesses it. As stated
earlier, few people possess the writing skill to a commendable extent. And those who do usually enjoy considerable
credibility in the society because most people believe the written word (and a
writer) more than they do the spoken words (and a public speaker).
Another way to use written communication
to enhance your social integration is by cultivating the habit of writing
letters or short notes to compliment or encourage people; your family members,
friends, colleagues, or even people who do not know you but whom you admire and
desire to be friendly with. In the words of Benson (undated:183), ‘we live by
encouragement, and die without it –
slowly, sadly and angrily’. Therefore, the man who looks beyond himself
to sincerely appreciate others in long or short writings will not just be
adding a memorable value to them, but will also earn himself an impressive
collection of allies. And the more people you have around you, the easier you
are able to perform tasks and achieve your aims in life.
Monday, 13 August 2018
Writing for Emotional Development
One way writing helps one emotionally is
in the area of catharsis which the Oxford Advanced Learner’s Dictionary
(1998:176) defines as “the process of releasing strong feelings, e.g. through
drama or other artistic activities, as a way of providing relief from anger,
suffering, etc.”
When in an emotional state that disturbs
your equanimity, picking up a pen to write exactly how you feel is a sure way
of tranquilizing the storms in your mind. No matter the gibberish you may
write or how incoherent your thought-flow may be, simply pouring out your heart
on paper is able to sufficiently calm you down and prevent you from acting out
of place.
Another way you can use writing to
achieve an emotional end is by documenting your feelings of attraction or
affection for another person, usually the opposite sex. Such writings are
usually a better and more accurate representation of the depth of one’s feeling
than words of mouth can express. The rhythmical quality of such lettered
emotions are also poetic. That is why
Wordsworth describes poetry as ‘the spontaneous overflow of powerful feeling
recollected in tranquility’.
Friday, 10 August 2018
WRITING FOR PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT
The Cambridge International
Dictionary of English (1996:1692) defines writing as “the activity of
creating pieces of writing work, such as stories, poems or articles”. In the words of Beck et al (2002:31),
“writing is a method of passing information from one person to another, or to a
group of people”. They however did not limit writing’s function to information
alone, as they also cite persuasion and entertainment as veritable resources to
which writing can be put to.
Of the four communication skills,
writing is the least utilized for obvious reasons. It requires a great
expenditure of time and mental efforts to write. It is a process of drafting,
editing, and redrafting to usually arrive at an acceptable finished product.
The more reason it has been a highly prized communication skill throughout
history. Its mastery confers great powers and influence on whoever possesses it
(Beck et al, 2002), Hence the popular saying that “the pen is mightier than the
sword”.
The beauty of writing is not usually in
its volumes, but in the style and the effectiveness of the content in achieving
the set objective(s) of the writer. Effective writing essentially thrives on
clarity, precision, and conciseness. In the words of Adesanoye (1995:115):
Effective
writing…is a piece of written communication that conveys its message in the
simplest, clearest, most concise and most readable way possible. It is also
that piece of writing in which the manner of expression dovetails perfectly
with the subject matter; one in which…there is a close fit between what and
how.
Simplicity,
clarity, readability and conciseness are thus the hallmarks of effective
writing.
With this background on writing, we
shall now proceed to highlight how it can be used for various forms of personal
development.
Writing aids the development of the
mental faculty because, more than any communication effort, it involves a lot
of thinking. The writer often finds himself writing, cancelling and rewording
his expressions in the effort to choose the words that will most suitably
convey his heart to his reader(s). In the process of doing this, he regularly
consult the dictionary and thesaurus, thereby increasing his bank of vocabulary
while at the same time honing his intellect.
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