Thursday, 4 May 2017

THE FEAR FACTOR IN LIFE (PART 3)

ANTIDOTES
Dream: Your dream is one of the most effective antidotes for fear. It can fuel the flames of desire within you until you are willing to confront and overcome your fear. Your dream can help you go where you are afraid to go and do what you are afraid to do. Your dream can provide the spark that will turn your fear to fire.

Action: Action is the only antidote for fear. Act in spite of fear, and the death of fear is certain. When it comes to dealing with fear, you have 3 choices:

1. Try to avoid it altogether. But that means staying away from every known or potential fear-producing person, place thing, or situation.

2. Hope that it will go away. But that’s like hoping for a fairy godmother to rescue you.

3. Face it and overcome it Discover the foundation of fear. Most of the fears we face every day are not based on facts. They are generated by our feelings. For example, a study conducted by the University of Michigan showed the following: 
  • 60 percent of our fears are totally unwarranted; they never come to pass 
  • 20 percent of our fears are focused on our past, which is completely out of our control 
  • 10 percent of our fears are based on things so petty that they make no difference in our lives 
  • Of the remaining 10 percent, only 4 to 5 percent could be considered justifiable.
These statistics show that any time or energy you give to fear is totally wasted and counterproductive 95 percent of the time.

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